Have you ever dreamt of that Thai actress in the movies? Or admired the Thai maid you keep on seeing in your apartment block?

You are not alone. Thai women are like pieces of art. They have angelic beauty and slim model-like bodies that attract men from all over the world.

Well, if you want to meet and date the girl of your dreams, I would like to help you out. There is a lot you should know about: the mindset of these girls, what it is like to date one and what they expect from you. Settle in and get some coffee as give you some tea (pun intended).

What is the mindset of Thai brides?

That said, every girl is different. While I may not be capable of telling you what exactly is on her mind, you should keep it casual and simple. If you get a chance, talk about food because Thais love food more than anything. Also, talk about family, shopping and tell a few jokes. This chat should loosen her up.

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At the same time, there are things that you should avoid. Do not talk about money. This topic is typically the last thing on her mind and should come up later if things get serious. Also, avoid talking about your job, sex (they are shy) and bad things about their country.

What are the perks of dating a Thai woman?

Thai girls never seem to age. If you date her and things get serious, you will be the envy of many as you grow older because your wife will always be youthful.

Other than that, you get these perks:


Thai society has strong family values. Therefore, if your Thai lady sees potential in settling down with you, she will do everything to make things work so that you have a family in the future.

Less Complaining

Of course, if you do something stupid, you should expect consequences. However, Thai women are more forgiving and do not complain as much when compared to western women. If the issue is small, she may let it slide by with just a slight warning.

Always Optimistic

Part of being less of a grouch is an optimistic attitude. Thai women try to make the best of every situation. As such, they always enjoy life and will give you an easy time.

You Are Always the Boss: Men like to be in control, and Thai women understand that. So long as you treat her right, she will let you have your way and always support you.

What is it like to date a Thai girl?

If you are used to western women, the first thing you will notice is the culture change. It will not be easy and requires getting used to, but once you passed this, the reward is worth it.

You will be treated and respected as a man.

Thai culture instils these qualities in women, whereby they respect and care for their men. Because of this, there is little feminism in the country, and if you treat her right, you will have a generous reward.

TOP stereotypes about Thai women

Let us be honest. There is a picture you have in your mind about Thai women. This thinking is due to how Hollywood movies and other western films portray them.

Contrary to what the silver screen shows you, women from Thailand are not dangerous. Films like The Hangover, Bangkok Dangerous and The Beach depict them as prostitutes, poor, drug dealers or thieves.

Random facts that you won't believe are true:

Not all Thai women are not looking to gain from you in exchange for sexual favours. Also, not all are poor and have strange, illegal occupations.

While some Thai women match that description, this should not scare you. Every country has good and bad girls, and Thailand is no exception. Just be cautious and trust your gut. You will find a good girl.

What do Thai women seek in men?

All you need to know about why Asian brides are looking for Western men:

A family man

As stated earlier, the Thai society places a lot of emphasis on family. Thus, a woman from this country expects you to value family so that she can have a stable home.


You should have goals to impress a Thai girl. As much as she can provide for herself, she needs a man who can work hard to secure a future. Also, men with clear goals are sexy. Do not forget that!


Most Thai men are spoilt and treated like royalty because they are heirs to family fortunes. Therefore, they might not be mature enough to deal with life issues. This reason is part of why women there seek western partners; they are more responsible.


Due to Thai culture, a majority of Thai men see their wives as possessions. Women do not like this, and thus, they seek some form of independence. Do not be very clingy. Give her space to be herself.

A good body

Western guys like to work out a lot, and this is very sexy for Thai women. On top of this, since they take good care of their bodies, so should you.

How to choose the reliable and legit Thai dating site

I am a bit shy, and from experience, it is easier to meet a girl online, rather than approaching her on the street. If you are like me, you need a reliable and legit dating website to find the right Thai girl. That said, you need to dip your feet in the water to see if the site is reliable.

First, identify popular sites that have lots of members and social media integration. Dating is a numbers game, and social media helps to verify identities.

Create your account on these sites, providing only the basics. Do not give your credit card info.

Look at the search preferences & filters and matching systems. If you know what you want, make sure there are filters to narrow down your search. Otherwise, look for a matching system for suggesting compatible women.

Dating services to meet pretty Thai brides seeking love & dating

Considering the points above, if you want to find genuine, exotic Thais, I recommend these three dating sites.


This website has profiles of single women from Asia, Europe and Latin America. You can find close to 4,000 Thai girls here to go through their profiles one-by-one. Alternatively, it is easier to use the matching wizard or search engine, in which you can filter by age, weight, height, English skill level, country/city, drinks, and smokes factors. The site has numerous AFA awards, the latest being Best International Dating Agency and Best Niche Dating Site in 2020.

Therefore, it is reliable, and you should consider joining this service.

Creating an account is free but messaging is a premium feature for males. You will have to part with $9.99 for the first 3000 words and $3.5 for a photo. There is also $5.95 to open a message.

You can upgrade to a premium membership by paying a one-time fee of $95 plus $29.95 as monthly fees. This subscription gives you:


AsiaMe.com looks legit from the word go. Once you enter your sign-up details, your account goes under review. When approved, you get access to profiles of women in Thailand, China and Vietnam. The site has about 450,000 active members weekly, majority of them being the Thai girls you want to meet. There is an advanced search filter to help you narrow it down to your taste, as well as access to safety and security systems.

All these services are free, but you need bonus points or credits (paid via card or PayPal) to access the following:

Meeting a Thai woman: What to consider?

First things first, study the Thai culture so that you know the dos and don’ts. For instance, do not be too quick or bold, especially on the subject of sex.

You should also be a gentleman because this will always win you the lady. It will set a good example that will earn you a second date or probably more. Who knows?

Put some effort into it. Dress well, smell good and be well-groomed because appearance is everything. Look for a perfect date location to seal the deal.

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Krystyna Trushyna
Krystyna is a blogger, coach and iDate speaker. She has been working in online romance and International dating industry since 2012 and is passionate about identifying the romance scam and giving dating tips and hacks. Join Krystyna for the dating service reviews and for finding ways to succeed with dating.
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